It was allright, but she was not with me. But I hung out with her at the neighbors today. I was invited for a birthday party. It was different, and got me out of the house. She will go out with me the next weekend. So that's cool, I am looking forward to it. I may see her tomorrow, we will see on that one. Anyway will keep you all updated on things. Well some things... hehe

 

Okay I am back, got really sick, and haven't done much of anything. After the little birthday party. I went home, and organized my DVD's and such. Watched a movie. Then about 12am Sunday night, I started hurling my insides out. So I was in bed for like 28 hours, or so. Stayed up yesterday, and then slept another 9 1/2 hours more. Yes I got the flu, and a nasty one at that. And then I talked to that girl yesterday. That I started dating. And she got it the same time I did. Weird huh?

All aside, I am thinking of getting her a Christmas card, with a little note inside it. I want to mention I like her. And would like her to be my girlfriend when she is ready. What do you all think? I don't think it is too forward do you? Anyway would like to hear from my friends on here. Feel free to share your thoughts on this. And the other if you like. Thanks

 

I'd say wait until you go out on at least 1 more date with her before asking her to go steady, so as to not look too overly excited, but it's ultimately up to you. We aren't there to see how she acts when she's with you, so she may be feeling the same as you. Maybe just buy her a thoughtful gift for Christmas (with no strings attached) first, and see how she reacts to it. Doesn't need to be anything too expensive, maybe a $20-$30 necklace from Walmarts jewlery dept or something like that just to put out the feelers so to speak, but then again what do I know, I've only been married 21 years lol. If you get her something too expensive right now, you wouldn't know if her reaction towards you was because of the thought you put into the gift, or the money you spent on her, and it's the thought angle you're looking for. If you spend a bunch on her first gift before you have any commitments, she may "expect" you to spend a lot on her every time you get her something in the future (just a thought).

 

Yeah I plan on giving her the card, with a $25 Walmart gift card inside it. And with a little letter. I am taking her out hopefully this weekend again. And will probably give the card to her. Just before Christmas. Also that is why I will mention "when she is ready to be my girlfriend" So there is no pressure, and not being forward about it. And to just mention that "I like her" and leave it at that.

Oh and I do appreciate your comments, and or advice on this. I take everything, and look it over. I can see what you mean by the expense and such. That is why I figured the $25 is not too little or too much. She did say... She would go out this weekend, if we both felt better. I am starting to, so hopefully she is too. It just has been too long, since I have had a girlfriend. That I miss it, and want something again. I just have good vibes about this one. And the fact she lives close to me. lol Anyway thanks again, and will keep you all updated on this.

 

Walmart gift card??? I'd aim for something like a classy clothing store or some place she likes to shop... unless that is walmart, in which case it's all good.

 

maybe the only store within 75 miles is Walmart

 

got a picture? id liek to see how she dresses. i could make a couple good suggestions if i see how she dresses..... most likely....

 

No no picture yet. But she does not dress fancy. And I know she shops at Walmart. She is not into brands or anything like that. That is one reason I like her. She is thrifty like me, and doesn't care about brands. Just wear whatever works.

 

just get her a happy meal gift card, and if she eats that or the meal, then she likes you.

 

this guy ^^^^ he only posts here when he thinks of something "witty" to say, any one else notice this? how is he still a member? just curious. i dont think ive ever seen him actually be of help

 

I still say get her some type of jewlery or something. YOU pick it out and buy it for her. Anybody can be lazy and just buy a gift card, it's taking the time to actually look around trying to find something you think would be "perfect for her" that she'll notice, and that usually means a lot more than a giftcard like her grandparents might send to her in the mail. Idunno just my way of thinking I guess.

 

lol, its WAY to soon for jewlery. id say go with a really nice perfume or something girly from bath and body works if she likes to pamper herself any bit. since she obviously doesnt do designer clothing or anything. otherwise get a card and make your own gift card that says like, good for one perfect evening of whatever you want on "wildman's name here".

 

Okay I have moved on to somebody else. I started talking to a girl on the phone, back in October. And I recently met her at Christmas. I am falling for her, and want her to realize it. I haven't felt this way for somebody in a long time. Unfortunately she is going back to Illinois the 2nd of January. The cool part is... She is moving back here to AZ, in May or June of '08. So if there is something more. She will be worth the wait. I have already told her, I like her. And she likes me too. She just wants to get to know me better. I want to tell her, and show her. How much I like her. Just thought I would share with all of you on this. It is a way to get it off my chest.

 

best of luck, sugah.....some things are worth waiting for......

 

where in illinois ????

 

Nice try. You think I would reveal that? lol

 

idk... maybe? lol im way to young for her im sure any-who

 

Fixed.....

 

no..... like in 20 he is 30 so yeah

 

win!!!!!!!!

 

She's 27

 

I hate to be honest but u would have better luck at www.russianbrides.com lol thats the truth...

 

Dude.... I am past all that Russian chick stuff. I am talking about ones I can actually meet in person. You know ones that reside in the US? Thanks anyway

 

Well I got to see her one last time, and hang out with her last night. Then I told her she would be worth waiting for. Anyway I just got done a short while ago. Typing out a 19 paragraph, 3 page email. Her flight just left about an hour ago. I said so much in the email. I don't think I left anything out. When she tells me, she arrived safely home. I will tell her, she has a personal email from me, waiting for her. When she can devote the time. I have a strong feeling, she will be the one, that breaks the wall. I have put around my heart, after it was broken years ago. I really hope so, because I am falling for her hard. I haven't felt this way in years. Wish me luck everybody, and thanks.

 

dude, you e-mailed her before she was even home.... as a friend, im telling you, that can come off as to soon/clingy to women, shoulda just sent her one tonight asking if she made it home ok. pace your self there feller' dont want to get hooked on something you dont have yet.... ive been there all to many times myself, nothing worse than feeling stupid for being sad you missed out on a girl you never actually really had. specially if it ends up being you chased them off.